A couple of months ago, I complained about the pervasiveness of G.V.S. — Gay Victimization Syndrome — in contemporary gay movies. Such films remain stuck in the past, and refuse to take a chance on the realities of the present. Viewers can find the antidote in a remarkable 2011 film called “Weekend.”
The scope is limited to two men, spending two days together in their working-class neighborhood in Nottingham. Andrew Haigh, who wrote, directed and edited “Weekend,” works within that narrow frame to create one of the most honest romances ever put to film. It begins with Russell (Tom Cullen), a handsome, bearded young man, stopping by his best friend’s party. Haigh, working with the cinematographer Urszula Pontikow, wisely keeps his camera on Russell whenever he isn’t talking. We can tell, just by the way he behaves and looks on at his fellow partygoers, that something isn’t right, that something is missing in his life.
What better way to cure this lack than by going to a gay club? The night is a disjointed blur, anchored only by Russell’s sideways glances at another handsome, bearded man. Suddenly, it is the morning after, and Russell finds himself being interviewed on tape about their post-coitus experience by the aforementioned man, whose name turns out to be Glen (Chris New). Glen, who is staging the makeshift interview for a future art exhibition, is as aggressive and outspoken as Russell is reticent. “Why are you afraid to talk about sex?” he asks a bewildered Russell.
What began as a one-night stand blossoms into something deeper, and Cullen and New have the chemistry to pull the relationship off. Their characters are obviously attracted to one other, but they also exhibit a slight and understandable hesitancy arising from the sudden nature of their romance. Haigh continues to focus on those telling non-verbal moments, from the slightest gesture to the slightest downturn of the eyes. To enumerate all the stages in which their relationship develops in this review would not be fair; they must be seen to be believed. (The film can be streamed on Netflix.)
“Weekend” is most successful at showing how a relationship can bring the best and the worst out of people. For every cute smile that Russell and Glen give each other, there is a hidden insecurity they must surmount. The two men ride the train together, after a night out with Glen’s friends. Russell comments on how it is nice to hang out with gay people, but Glen brushes it off. “You realize they’re just as much idiots as the rest of us,” he says with a knowing smile. “Weekend” eschews homophobic characters and tired coming-out stories for a more encompassing narrative that any couple, gay or straight, can relate to. It isn’t society, but the men themselves who are their own greatest enemy and asset.




